
One thing I really like about Saigon is the ability some people, in this case the elderly, have to make me smile about things that under other circumstances would annoy me, greatly.
How can you not smile looking at this dignified, chic man on his motorbike, in his PJs & slippers in the middle of the day, on one of the busiest streets in the city? (parked right in front of the recently opened Chanel boutique).
The father of the man who owns our building also stays in his PJs all day long! He walks around the neighborhood and down the block to have his phổ in the morning, sitting outside, without a care in the world that most people walking or driving by him are in their suits for work. We've even seen him attending community meetings in his PJs! I think if saw a bunch of middle aged people walking around from 7am until 11pm in their pajamas everyday, I wouldn't have the same reaction but the elderly get a free pass.
His wife often grabs my arm when I walk in or out of the building and says nice things like "you should go and rest", "you're a good wife because you work hard" or "you should go and eat". I really, really, really don't like it when people other than my family or close friends touch me (unless its an air hug). But elderly people here tend to grab, lean or push on me frequently and I think it's kind of funny, so again, free pass in my book.
The biggest free pass which older people here enjoy is cutting to the front of the line. This happens everywhere- the market, the airport, the bank or anywhere else there is a line. Many people try to cut to the front of the line here, another major pet peeve, but if it's a much older person, I just let them go because I know they aren't going to stop pressing into me or others unless I let them. I can't help but laugh and shake my head at their persistence and what they can get away with because of their age :)











